The wedding ring is the symbol of a couple’s commitment to each other, and it should be a reflection of their personal style. While some couples opt for matching bands, others prefer to mix and match styles. The most important thing is that the ring is comfortable, fits well and suits your lifestyle.
A ring is also a daily reminder of your marriage commitment. Your spouse should be at the forefront of your thoughts, decisions and schedule, and your ring is a physical symbol that you are “one” with them.
The ring is also a reminder that you should be respectful to your partner. While words are the most common way to express respect, sometimes the quietest gestures and deeds are the most meaningful. Refusing to wear your ring when asked sends the message that you are not committed to your spouse.
Wedding rings are often worn on the left hand, as it was traditionally believed that this finger contained a vein that ran directly to the heart. However, the truth is that this practice was actually a marketing ploy by jewelers to sell more rings. Since the rings rub against each other constantly, they cause excessive wear and tear, which leads to expensive repairs and insurance claims—and more sales for the jeweler.
In the past, most brides and grooms selected their wedding bands separately. But today, many couples shop together to select the perfect band that complements their engagement ring. This gives them the opportunity to explore designs, details and characteristics that appeal to both of them. Having this conversation up front can also save time and frustration. “If you and your partner are shopping together, it’s good to talk about budgets,” says expert Jillian Sassone. This will help the jeweler pull options within your price range—which will avoid that heart-stopping moment when you realize you love something that is way out of your reach.”
Another consideration is how intricate or simple the design is. Intricate etchings are more likely to trap dirt, and the cost of engraving adds to the final bill—from $25 for 15 machine-engraved characters to $75 for eight hand-engraved characters.
The width of your band is another big decision to make. Men typically prefer a wider band, while women tend to gravitate toward skinnier, daintier bands.
Stacking two or more rings on the same finger is a popular trend. But it’s essential to choose bands that are similar in height so they are a comfortable fit. Some people choose to stack bands that are made of different metals, or have stones in them. Stacking different metals helps to highlight each individual’s unique style, and mixing bands in a variety of widths can look attractive, as well. Many jewelry stores also offer complimentary ring sets, which can be an easy way to find the right combination for you.