The wedding ring is a timeless symbol of love and commitment. Often it is the most precious piece of jewelry a couple will ever own and is passed down from generation to generation, becoming heirlooms with priceless significance. While some couples may feel their wedding rings are simply a decoration that adds to the ceremony, others seek meaning and deeper understanding of the tradition behind this symbolic piece of jewellery.
There are many different traditions surrounding wedding rings, some of which have been in place for thousands of years across multiple cultures. The most common today is for the bride and groom to exchange rings during their marriage ceremony as a public sign of their vows.
This is done to show the world that they are married and committed to one another and to each other’s well-being. However, it is also an important symbol of their spiritual and emotional connection.
In some religious traditions, the exchange of wedding rings is even considered part of the sacrament of marriage and is therefore recognised as a holy act of worship. This is typically done in a church ceremony during which the priest or pastor will say: “[name], receive this ring as a sign of your love and fidelity. May it always be with you.”
During the wedding ceremony, it is customary for the best man or maid of honour to keep track of the couple’s rings and to produce them during the symbolic moment of giving and receiving them. They will usually present them on a cushion, and in more elaborate wedding ceremonies a ring bearer will help to hand over the rings to the happy couple.
The most common material for wedding bands is gold or platinum, and in the US it is often diamond. Diamonds are the hardest natural substance on earth and symbolise purity, strength and beauty. This is why they are so commonly associated with romance and love. They are also very durable, which is another symbol of longevity and eternal love.
Choosing the right wedding ring for you and your partner is an exciting, personal choice and it’s perfectly okay to mix and match styles to create your own unique look. It’s important to communicate with your partner and if you have an idea of what style you are both after, let each other know! Keeping your partner in the loop will ensure they are happy with your bling and that you have complete satisfaction with it.
Whether you are looking for a simple, classic band or something more personalised, there are plenty of options to suit every taste and budget. You can also choose to have two separate rings or stack them to create a more classic look. Whatever you decide, remember that the wedding ring doesn’t make you any more or less married and it’s up to you and your partner to maintain a healthy and fulfilling marriage!